Hmm that's odd, I'm still pretty new to the outboards but I put multiple gallons of fuel through my mod motor on an OS lower last season and haven't broken one yet. I've heard of guys breaking them if they use grease for lube or if the flex shaft is bottomed out in the pto and prop shaft.
I use straight castor oil for lube and its been working great. I give it a shot before every run and i dont use an oiler. I get it from the pharmacy, apparently it's used as a laxative lol...
Check your cable length, pull the motor off and push it all the way in, then push your prop shaft in so the dive dog is tight against the drive ( like the prop does) and measure how far the cable is going into the pto shaft. If its bottoming out in the hole, trim a little off with your dremel, I would say give it a 1/16" or so clearance so it can float in between. Maybe a little more depending on how much engagement you get in the pto.
Hope this helps,
Brian