Distorted glow plugs come from either too much compression for the percent of nitro being used, too much load on the engine, or too much scavenging from the pipe like a lean condition. Its telling you it is a "timing" problem.
Try lowering your compression, lengthening the pipe, or use a smaller prop and see what happens.
After you get your motor to hold a plug, this might be handy to look through also:
Reading Glow Plugs and Head Buttons
Before you try your next new glow plug, run it up to a hot red-orange and let it completely cool about five minutes, then run it up to hot again. Do this several times. It will heat temper your coil before it has to take the pounding of compresson and fuel. Do NOT go white hot with it...it will frost the coil, same as a lean run will do and cut down the action of the plug. You want the plug to stay glossy. Just stay red to orange and you should be okay. What is important is making sure the plug cools off as much as it did before heating it.
They naturally do this by themselves with each run, but you can give them a gentle head start on the process before they get pounded - and might not survive it. Like anything in a motor...glow plugs need breaking in also before they can take hard use. Always stay rich the first few runs with a new glow plug and give it a chance.
This used to be stated with every glow plug KB sold on the back of the package before the light went on that they shouldn't really be bragging how to lengthen the life of a plug. <_<
Remember also a glow plug should not really burn out that often. If treated in a modest tune, they should last past a couple jugs of fuel if not more. Some sport engines can go their whole life on it's original plug if it's kept in sport tune.
It is only when you step up to very high nitro (40%-60%) is when you start burning plugs every tank or so, because the coating on the coil is designed to react only with
methanol...not nitromethane, and no setting will ever be correct for the plug to last any long length of time. Like they say, Nitro is pure dynomite...