Hi Sean,
Not sure if any other carb will bring you luck until you have your servo travel and end points set up properly, and I know you have been trying. I used to fight this with my airplanes, where my older radio was not programmable with end points on travel.
If your radio features this get to know it, and if not, Dubro makes a two-piece fine-tooth servo arm that you can adjust to locate the attachment point proper.
If you haven't already, try moving the pushrod points inward on the carb and outward on the servo, and if no luck, start back the other way moving the carb point outward while moving the servo point inward.
Try different servo arms also, or start with a blank one where you drill your own hole.
Use a new pushrod with one loose end on it and just tape it until you have your magic point set up.
Let us know what happens.
This type of problem isn't uncommon, it is why the electronic end points on the new radios came about.
I have an SE also and know the OPS carbs. There is not much room to play with on travel because the bore is so large for its barrel diameter and you'll have that problem with it not closing if it isn't set up perfect. There's only one magic spot that will work.
SuperTigre has a nice carb that will fit. It is a double needle carb but well made and should perform well. If you get to that point with deciding to go with something like that, let me know and I'll look up numbers for you.